Sometimes I wonder.You doubt people.the same thing.people doubt you.ever ask yourself why people dont look up to you.why people wont bother to listen to what you say.all along you feel you gained trust from people around you?Whats the use of saying so much and in the end,its always back to square one.people are getting sick of what you say.you feel people let you down.you may feel people who are dearest to you didnt support you,be there for you.you want people to put themselves in your shoes.have you ever feel how they feel?When they feel bad and upset,blame themselves,you feel it?you doubt them.When they are not at fault,they still explain and apologized.you?you expect them to make the first move.and now,everything become their fault.you always make yourself the victim.Before you get unhappy and angry.think.Have you hurt them?I think you hurt them more.you want me to list out?I can.you dont appreciate their little thoughts.you expect them to clean up the mess for you.(the bowl of noodles).ask yourself.how will you feel if you are treated this way.we kept quiet.you didnt turn up when you are supposed to.you didnt pick up calls.reply smses.we are worried.you kept us waiting for hours.whats your attitude when you see us?you didnt even apologized.you show face to us.when someone wanted to do little things for you.you find its not up to your standard.how should that person feel?If you feel you are very hurt,then you are wrong.you will never understand how hurt they are.Its time to grow up.you have alot matters to fred,so do others.everyone have problems.and have you ever show sincere care and concern when someone needs a listening ear?no.I dont deny you have been nice before.but people are starting to doubt you.so now,how do you feel?you feel you are wronged?hurt?thats how they feel all along.I dont wish to say more.to conclude,you want others to respect you and your feelings,respect others first.